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Sexual abuse is not necessarily about sex, although things of a sexual nature take place. It’s about power. It contains the jonesing, the addiction, the need for domination in taking something away from someone and watching the lack of ability of that person to reveal the theft. When someone is about to marry, they are […]

I Don’t know. Maybe it’s been 1, 2, 5, 10, 20, or 40 years since that intrusion of sexual abuse into your life. And somehow, say with a time warp, or a divine manipulation and interference with time, you can go there and whisper into the ear of that younger you. Someone you’d trust. What

Ramifications Part 1 The first half of my life before adulthood, when I was a typical kid, I suffered no abuse. I was respected and given the liberties of a child. The ramifications of this existence netted an outgoing chatterbox of a kid who was delighted to overcome her obstacles. This included being successful in

In the Mind’s Eye Dream On I Don’t Mind Happiness doesn’t start with a relationship, a degree, a job or money. It starts with your thoughts and what you tell yourself every day.  The Secret @ The Secret Happy The future is an exciting place. Don’t let the past hold you from it. The past

A child needs stability and security in order to construct their maps on how the world works One day I walked out of my stable environment into a world that I knew nothing about. From my mother’s house into a hell. At that time, I didn’t know what hell was or where I was. I

Physical Abuse Physical Abuse—any intentional act causing injury or trauma by way of bodily contact. Abuse—a misuse of power intended to harm or control another person Psychological Component Psychological    Emotional    Mental Psychological Abuse—Verbal threats, intimidation, isolation, and humiliation. Control of daily activities and money. Stalking (repeated unwanted contact). Manipulation of children in order to instill

My website is “An Account of Abuse”. It is my account of abuse against me. And although our instances are different, they are the same. We all went through shock shame, distrust mistrust, panic dread, as we struggled to keep a sane disposition. In this writing I will discuss trauma be it physical, emotional or

Trauma – when the soldier walked across the field and stepped on a landmine and lost her leg, that was a traumatic event. When Somebody’s husband undressed us and penetrated me with his penis, that was trauma. And not far behind that, when Somebody would beat me with an extension cord with 50+ whacks –

The subject of this writing will be trauma. Some of the greatest recipients of trauma are domestic and sexual abuse victims, war veterans, victims of natural disasters, and victims of starvation. We all go through shock shame, distrust mistrust, panic dread, as we struggled to keep a sane disposition, or not. In this writing I